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Earlier this summer, I let the voice of religion silence me from talking about what men really long for in marriage: meaningful, transformational sex with their wife.
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I pulled back because some labeled it “transactional.”
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But now I see clearly—this is one of the enemy’s greatest strategies: to silence voices, to distort and destroy the gift of married sex, both for pleasure and for creation.
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Here’s the truth: men don’t just want more sex.
The sex they want is deeper than a transaction.
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The men I serve want more…
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Affection.
To be chosen.
To know they’re enough.
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When intimacy shifts from transactional to transformational, it changes everything—energy, clarity, leadership.
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When I work with high-achieving men, we go after the root causes that keep them from bringing their whole selves into their marriage. Because when they do, transformation begins.
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​3 Ways to Get to the Root Cause of Transformation in Marriage:

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​Confess honestly — name the fears and frustrations you’ve been hiding.
​Receive openly — let your spouse’s affection and love in without performance.
​Engage fully — bring your body, soul, and spirit into intimacy, not just your physical presence.
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When we get to the root cause of fear, shame, and guilt, the chains are broken. Only then can a man bring his whole self to his wife—and redeem the marriage bed.​
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What would change in your leadership if your marriage became your greatest place of transformation?

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Are you ready to take your marriage to the next level?

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Be Strong, Lantz Howard Professional Coach ​ ​

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