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 There is a generation of men seeking a mission. This may be your wake-up call. Last week, I finished an intensive with leaders in the Texas Hill Country who are choosing the narrow path—men willing to do their own soul work before mapping the strategy of their organization (we did both). I am convinced that the leaders who embrace this hidden work will be the ones who lead with fresh imagination and resilient presence in the future. For too long, this mission has been hidden beneath our modern comfort, selfish ambition, and coping under the mask of a high performer. Before you charge off to save the world, slow down. Do your own work first. 
 Ask yourself: 
 Your mission starts within your heart. Self-emptying will make space for more of what God has for you than what you could ever ask or imagine. What if every man you knew lived their true identity? One that offered his own presence as a gift of transformation and healing. Imagine a man on a mission who empties himself of self-protection and chooses a path of sacrifice and surrender so that others may know the abundant life that exists in True Love. This type of man will embody Truth and Grace. Truth that shares there is one hope and one faith. Grace that shares there is room for one more at the table. You want transformation. Your wife is asking for peace. Your organization is hungry for a new way. May you have the strength to embody truth and grace.   | 
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A common sentiment I hear from the men I serve is that, “I wish she would initiate.”Brother, let’s flip that question. — Are you the type of husband that is worth initiating for? — Her initiating is less about what you perceive as her duty to the level of polarity, tension, and attraction you are bringing into the relationship. Here are your three ways to become more desirable. 1) Take the lead and plan the calendar for the family. Instead of her telling you what the plans are for the...
Earlier this summer, I let the voice of religion silence me from talking about what men really long for in marriage: meaningful, transformational sex with their wife.I pulled back because some labeled it “transactional.”But now I see clearly—this is one of the enemy’s greatest strategies: to silence voices, to distort and destroy the gift of married sex, both for pleasure and for creation. Here’s the truth: men don’t just want more sex.The sex they want is deeper than a transaction. The men I...
1. Surrender to the Lordship of Christ Daily Every marriage begins with how a man orders his own heart. Surrender isn’t a one-time prayer; it’s a daily act of humility where you lay down pride, selfish ambition, and control. When a husband wakes up and says, “Jesus, today I give You my thoughts, my actions, and my love,” he becomes anchored. A man surrendered to Christ will never lead his marriage from ego, but from the overflow of God’s love. 2. Tell the Truth About Your Fears and Feelings...