Unlocking the Canyons of Your Heart


The gun range does something in me. It opens up a frontier of my heart that needs ongoing exploration and it reveals the uncharted territory most of us are carrying.

We are carrying real needs that we dare not name.

Are you willing to be seen as needy?

Most men aren’t. And that is why they remain stuck.

After leading men for over two decades: I’ve learned one thing:


Unlocking the canyon of a man’s heart requires risk.

Risk to create the environment.
Risk to model truth telling.
Risk to ask for support.

The gift shows up when the room responds by removing their own fig leaf.

This work is not for the half hearted.

It is for the man who wants to get his energy, joy, and aliveness back.

The Arena is designed for high caliber Christian men who want to lead from their true identity and experience more intimacy with their wife. If this resonates with you. I invite you to audition for your fit on the inside. Doors close July 1st. Schedule a 15 minute call and ask me anything session and explore your fit.

Be Strong,

Lantz Howard



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