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Wholehearted Leadership is back this coming Tuesday and I'm honored to bring you five conversations at the intersection of identity, marriage, and vocation. Lyle Wells — President of Integris Leadership, executive coach, and a guy who's been fired twice and learned to hold his purpose tightly while holding every position loosely. We talk about why life is a series of sprints, not a marathon. Steve Cuss — Founder of Capable Life and author of Managing Leadership Anxiety. Steve helped me see why reactivity is contagious — and why the best asset any of us have to offer is a well self. Adam Tarnow — Author of The Fog of Work and a former CPA who spent years stuck in what he calls "the valley" of middle management. His reframe changed how I think about stress: you're not the villain, you're just in a valley. Dr. Phil Schubert — President of Abilene Christian University. This is one of the most vulnerable conversations I've hosted — about the season his identity collapsed, and the two words he heard from God that rebuilt it. Chris DeLeenheer — Family office leader, private equity investor, and author of The Quiet Drift. Chris calls himself a "mystical entrepreneur," and his story of learning to lead — not just follow — in his marriage stuck with me for weeks. #145 — Heal Your Hurting Mind #137 — The Intimacy Challenge #111 — The Mindful Marriage |
High Performance Marriage
Every week real insights from private coaching with high performing men rekindling desire, connection, sex, and intimacy in their marriage.
Our words carry significant weight. Our tongue is like a rudder on a ship, as James says, small but powerful. I believe one of the primary principles of having a high-performing marriage is trust. The foundation of trust is being a consistent person who lives by the standard of your word. Trust is using your words to help establish a future desire or reality. Jesus makes it clear from Matthew 5:37 how simple integrity needs to be, and it starts with a simple yes or no. And the book of wisdom...
I recently sat down Chris DeLeenheer — family office leader, investor, former church planter and missionary, and author of The Quiet Drift: Why Successful People lose their Way and How to Find Your Way Back — for a conversation that moves from bow hunting and endurance racing straight into the deep end: identity, sonship, and what happens when a driven man realizes his work has quietly become his worth. Chris traces his own story from planting a church, to a season in India, to building and...
Did your sex drive recently dive?Before you look to testosterone, blame her, or call it midlife. It may have less to do with drive than it does with stress. Your body is keeping track more than you realize. Back to school. End of summer vacation. Dropping the first one at the dorm. Grieving the transition of another season. Life is full. However, if you want to feel fully alive, it will require doing the sacrificial work that is essential to reigniting what you want most. Your drive may be...