The gun range does something in me. It opens up a frontier of my heart that needs ongoing exploration and it reveals the uncharted territory most of us are carrying. We are carrying real needs that we dare not name. Are you willing to be seen as needy? Most men aren’t. And that is why they remain stuck. After leading men for over two decades: I’ve learned one thing: Unlocking the canyon of a man’s heart requires risk. Risk to create the environment. Risk to model truth telling. Risk to ask...

Every week, men share with me what's happening below the surface of their lives. Raw stories. Infidelity. Addiction. Affairs. The relentless chase of business success—and the loneliness that comes with it. Most of them didn't wake up and decide to blow up their marriage. It happened slowly, in the quiet moments of fatigue and desperation, over the years. Then some marriages look great on Sunday morning, and next week, they file for divorce. One of the biggest culprits that sabotages...

Do you ever feel exhausted, bored, or unsure about your next step? I’ve been hearing this a lot lately: “I’m burnt out and don’t know what to do.” A man running a $12 million business came to me feeling this way. Like many early entrepreneurs, he was stuck reacting to whatever was most urgent. If it wasn’t on fire, it didn’t get his attention — including the important things like his marriage and his own well-being. Burnout often happens when you’re living in that “in-between” space — not...