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Lantz Howard | M.MFT, PCC

NBA Psychologist | Heal Your Hurting Mind, Masculinity, and Sexual Integrity

Published about 18 hours ago • 1 min read

I had a fascinating and deep conversation recently with Dr. Wayne Chappelle – sports psychologist for the OKC Thunder, military expert, and co-author of Craig Groeschel's new book Heal Your Hurting Mind.

This isn't your typical leadership podcast. Dr. Chappelle (Dr. C) breaks down:

  • The 7 hidden wounds that wreck high-achieving men (from "zipper" issues to pride and control)
  • Candid truths about sexual integrity in marriage – reframing arousal, masturbation, and emotional connection without shame
  • Why anxiety fuels peak performance, and how trauma forges diamonds
  • His journey helping Craig Groeschel beat burnout and embrace adventure

Whether you're navigating leadership fatigue, marriage challenges, or personal growth, this episode equips you with psychology-backed, faith-infused wisdom to thrive.

Listen and share now: Healing Your Hurting Mind | NBA Psychologist Dr. Wayne Chappelle on Masculinity, Marriage, Masturbation, Mental Health and Thriving Through Trauma Key segment: Skip to 20:42 for the game-changing talk on masculinity and intimacy.

If it hits home, forward this to a friend – it could change their life.

This was a unique episode that I recorded live with clients from my 1:1 work and The Arena mastermind cohorts. If you want VIP access to an upcoming recording with Jim Murphy, author of Inner Excellence and or you are ready to explore transforming your leadership. Reach out and schedule a 15 minute coaching conversation.

Be Strong,

Lantz Howard

I help high-performers align identity, marriage, and vocation– so they can lead wholeheartedly with the purpose that flows from a sound mind and a healthy soul.

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